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You sound fairly similar to me. I am fair skinned, blonde and have pale blue eyes. I too, wear very conservative clothes in the sense that I never have my legs out or chest out unless I am on the beach. I make no exceptions as looking cheap isn’t exactly my thing.
My advice to you is to keep with the “Conservative” look but twist the rules a bit! ;)
Buy yourself a couple of gorgeous pairs of smart heels, some cute “tea style” dresses, pleated skirts, black tights and shirts with pearly/lacy/studded collar detailing. Buying pieces with different textures and materials will give your outfits substance. Chiffon, silk, and satin are all great to make your look more chic and interesting!
Also, in the winter invest in some stylish coats. I personally love faux fur, swing coats and fitted blazers. This way, you’ll feel more comfortable as you won’t have any skin on show but will feel more glamorous and will stand out more.
With your colouring, I reckon navy, red, cream and pale rose pink would be excellent colour choices and would bring out your eyes!
Here is my lookbook: http://lookbook.nu/sophiastancer so you can get a hint of what kind of clothes I usually wear! I don’t update often or anything but I hope that it helps.